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Parents Who Prayed as Diabetic Daughter Died Are Charged

posted by akornfeld | 2:58pm Tuesday April 29, 2008

Associated Press
Weston, Wis. – Two parents who prayed as their 11-year-old daughter died of untreated diabetes were charged Monday with second-degree reckless homicide.
Family and friends had urged Dale and Leilani Neumann to get help for their daughter, but the father considered the illness “a test of faith” and the mother never considered taking the girl to the doctor because she thought her daughter was under a “spiritual attack,” the criminal complaint said.
“It is very surprising, shocking that she wasn’t allowed medical intervention,” Marathon County District Attorney Jill Falstad said. “Her death could have been prevented.”
Madeline Neumann died March 23 – Easter Sunday – at her family’s rural Weston home. Her parents were told the body would be taken to Madison for an autopsy the next day.
“They responded, ‘You won’t need to do that. She will be alive by then,’” the medical examiner wrote in a report.
An autopsy determined that Madeline died from undiagnosed diabetic ketoacidosis, which left her with too little insulin in her body. Court records said she likely had some symptoms of the disease for months.
The Neumanns each face up to 25 years in prison if convicted. The couple and their attorney did not immediately return messages left Monday by The Associated Press.
Falstad said the Neumanns have cooperated with investigators and are not under arrest. They have agreed to make an initial court appearance Wednesday, she said.
Randall Wormgoor, a friend of the Neumanns, told police that Dale Neumann led Bible studies at his business, Monkey Mo Coffee Shop, and believed physical illness was due to sin, curable by prayer and by asking for forgiveness from God, the complaint said.
Wormgoor said he and his wife, Althea, were at the Neumann home when Madeline – - called Kara by her parents – died. Wormgoor said he had urged the father to seek medical help and was told the illness “was a test of faith for the Neumann family and asked the Wormgoors to join them in praying for Kara to get well,” the complaint said.
Althea Wormgoor said she “implored” the parents to seek medical help for the girl, the complaint said.
Leilani Neumann, 40, told the AP previously she never expected her daughter to die. The family believes in the Bible, which says healing comes from God, but they have nothing against doctors, she said.
Dale Neumann, 46, a former police officer, has said he has friends who are doctors and started CPR “as soon as the breath of life left” his daughter’s body.
According to court documents, Leilani Neumann said in a written statement to police that she never considered taking the girl, who was being home-schooled, to a doctor.
“We just thought it was a spiritual attack and we prayed for her. My husband Dale was crying and mentioned taking Kara to the doctor and I said, ‘The Lord’s going to heal her,’ and we continued to pray,” she wrote.
The father told investigators he noticed his daughter was weak and slower for about two weeks but he attributed it to symptoms of the girl reaching puberty, the complaint said.
A day before Madeline died, according to the criminal complaint, the father wrote an e-mail with the headline, “Help our daughter needs emergency prayer!!!!.” It said his daughter was “very weak and pale at the moment with hardly any strength.”
The girl’s grandmother, Evalani Gordon, told police that she learned her granddaughter could not walk or talk on March 22 and advised Leilani Neumann to take the girl to a doctor.
Gordon eventually contacted a daughter-in-law in California who called police on a non-emergency line to report the girl was in a coma and needed medical help. An ambulance was dispatched shortly before some friends in the home called 911 to report the girl had stopped breathing, authorities said.
One relative told police that the girl’s mother believed she “died because the devil is trying to stop Leilani from starting her own ministry,” the complaint said.
The Neumanns said they moved to Weston, a suburb of Wausau in central Wisconsin, from California about two years ago to open the coffee shop and be closer to other relatives. The couple has three other children, ages 13 to 16; they are living with relatives.
The family does not belong to an organized religion or faith, Leilani Neumann has said.
Everest Metro Police Chief Dan Vergin said the parents once belonged to the Lighthouse Pentecostal Church but later became what he called religious “isolationists” involved in a prayer group of five people.
“They have gone out on their own,” he said. “… They have a very narrow view of Scripture and I would say not many people hold to that narrow of view.”
In March, an Oregon couple who belong to a church that preaches against medical care and believes in treating illness with prayer were charged with manslaughter and criminal mistreatment in the death of their 15-month-old daughter. The toddler died March 2 of bronchial pneumonia and a blood infection that could have been treated with antibiotics, the state medical examiner’s office said.
Copyright 2008 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.



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jestrfyl

posted April 29, 2008 at 3:10 pm


The story is a componding of sadness onto sadness. In their own culture it could be said that God sent angels and prophets to them with the advice they needed to help their daughter. In their arrogance, feeling that God alone would intercede, they allowed her to die. They need to re-read the story of Elisha and Naaman.
And now, they will be jailed for a long time simply because they would not accpet the responsibilities of parenting. Sad upon sad.



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Henrietta22

posted April 29, 2008 at 5:18 pm


You’re almost right jestrfyl, actually they did accept responsibilities of parenting, but they followed the Bible to the letter and this is what they got…..a daughter that died because they believed she was having an attack by the devil and praying would heal her, and although she kept growing weaker they thought it was because she was being attacked spiritually, and probably encouraged her to let go of her sins and God would heal her. She should be alive now and taking her RX for diabetes, but her body is dead.
I hope they receive many years of time, and that someone will counsel them for a better understanding of the Christian faith.



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nnmns

posted April 29, 2008 at 7:31 pm


I’m glad they were charged. They are guilty of criminal superstition and criminal stupidity; criminal because someone was seriously harmed by it.
They should go to jail for a good long time so they can’t harm anyone again and because society normally tries to protect itself by punishing those who cause harm.



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pagansister

posted April 29, 2008 at 9:33 pm


This is what happens when people “drink the Kool-Aid” and become so drunk on it that they can’t see!! This child died for no reason except her parent’s totally blind belief in a god to rescue her from a “spiritual attack”. The fact that they ignored those folks who were obviously wiser, and telling them to take her to the doctor/hospital, is unreal. They deserve to be punished. I wonder what they think of their god now!



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nnmns

posted April 29, 2008 at 11:11 pm


“I wonder what they think of their god now!”
The fallback position is well prepared; it’s not “God”, it’s the “devil”.
“One relative told police that the girl’s mother believed she “died because the devil is trying to stop Leilani from starting her own ministry,” the complaint said.”
So I doubt these people can be rehabilitated; the Kool-Aid has entered all the cells in their brains.



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Henrietta22

posted April 29, 2008 at 11:17 pm


Pagansister the sad part is that they said to the press in WI that they think their daughter died because their faith wasn’t deep enough for God to heal her. They said this a day or so after she died. At that time that is what they thought of God. They must be very confused, and their children left with others must be confused also. They need consuling desperately.



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pagansister

posted April 30, 2008 at 8:47 pm


“…..the sad part is that they said to the press in WI that they think their daughter died because their faith wasn’t deep enough for God to heal her.” Henrietta
You’re right, it is incredibly sad.



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DeaconScott

posted May 1, 2008 at 12:46 pm


ps -
“Incredibly sad” is perhaps the best description of this whole thing.
And you quoted Henrietta: “…..the sad part is that they said to the press in WI that they think their daughter died because their faith wasn’t deep enough for God to heal her.”
Well, the sad part is that an innocent girl died: another virgin sacrificed at an altar.
They said that their faith wasn’t deep enough for God to heal her, and that’s correct. You see, God has faith in doctors, and they presumed to tell God that he is wrong to have that faith.



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pagansister

posted May 1, 2008 at 2:02 pm


“You see, God has faith in doctors…..” DeaconScott
Yes, they obviously didn’t seem to know that!



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Jay

posted May 2, 2008 at 12:14 pm


These parents deserved to be charged and I hope punished. Its sad that such a thing could have been prevented by probably one DR visit. What scares me is that there are many people out there like this. I mean they never ever considered takeing her to see a doctor. Sad!



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Henrietta22

posted May 2, 2008 at 1:21 pm


Read yesterday they have a 450,000 bond on them until their trial.



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DeaconScott

posted May 3, 2008 at 12:28 am


Jay -
Greetings! I don’t think I’ve met you before. You said:
“These parents deserved to be charged and I hope punished.”
That raised for me a question I thought about some when the story first broke a few weeks ago. Several on these lists were calling for stiff penalties for the parents: life imprisonment, death penalty, and so on. That made me wonder why impose such penalties in an instance such as this.
That is: for what purpose? What good would severe punishment to them accomplish? Death in prison, ten years from now with needles in their arms, or forty years from now in the prison infirmary – what good would it do? What beneficial outcome would be brought about?
Surely not deterrence: others who might kill their children under comparable circumstances wouldn’t be fazed by this couple’s sentence, however heavy. And surely not to deter this couple to future, similar crimes: once their children are removed permanently from their clutches (which I almost certain to happen), there is no one else to whom they would be a danger. To prevent them from having other children to victimize? Holding the mother until menopause would accomplish that: say, fifteen years. And hold father too, for fairness.
The parents will understand the egregiousness of their inhumanity to their child, someday, or they won’t, and I really don’t think – given this couple’s motives – that living or dying in prison would make that metanoia experience more likely or more quick.
So why? I really mean this as a real question. The motivations for this particular crime are so “out there,” and seem to me to be so undeterrable and intractable to “rehabilitation” (whatever that means in criminal justice anymore), that I really wonder what good punishment might do, and why we cry out for it.
Jay, obviously this is not directed especially at you, although it is addressed to you. All: might we be able to have a real conversation about what justice might look like, in this instance?



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Henrietta22

posted May 3, 2008 at 5:07 pm


I can’t remember anyone on these postings asking for the parents to be given death, or life. What I remember is that most of us think that time should be given to them. Why? Because up until this case children have been dying because of the interpretation of religious faith by the parents of these children. In WI, one Church has a cemetary that has 75 children buried there, and 40 some died from diseases that could have been treated and weren’t. This is just one state. I find this shocking, and I really believe if these parents both in Oregon and WI have to do time that other extreme-religious parents will certainly take heed and use some intelligence about taking their children to the medical place of choice. My own personal feelings is that these people will suffer all their lives, in prison, and out of prison. We have laws in this country that are supposed to cover all children from abuse and death. They did not obey our countrys’ laws. These people and people like them say; God’s law is first, not the country I’m living in. A good illustration is the FLDS.



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DeaconScott

posted May 5, 2008 at 5:36 pm


Henrietta -
I thought I remembered someone suggesting the death penalty in the comments on the other story a couple of weeks ago. I may have remembered wrong (it may have been on some newsfeed or another and not here), but I do distinctly remember some calling for extremely long prison terms.
I agree completely with your remark, “that these people will suffer all their lives, in prison, and out of prison.” That is, if they “get it,” that they murdered their child for no reason (certainly no reason God would smile upon); either that or they never do “get it,” in which case, no amount of punishment of any kind will bring that about. Since they then would be incapable of comprehending any purpose, fair or unfair, for their imprisonment.
So yes, because “they did not obey our country’s laws,” consequences: prison. But to what end? for what purpose? And for how long? Until they feel guilty? (that is, “penitent” – which was the theory of prison reform in the 19th Century, and why prisons came to be called “penitentiaries.”)
Ordinary murderers understand why they are being punished, and many, in their heart of hearts, understand that it is just. Those who kill because they’re crazy are incarcerated until they’re not-crazy (if that ever happens, and sometimes it does). But what of not-crazy persons like these, who kill for moral, not immoral or amoral, reasons?



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Andrew

posted May 5, 2008 at 6:15 pm


This kind of religious fervor is a mental illness. I wonder if that could be argued in court?



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Henrietta22

posted May 5, 2008 at 6:52 pm


DeaconScott, First of all I don’t think of this couple as murderers. Their interpretation of what God expected of them caused them to believe that He, God, would heal their daughter because of their deep faith, and expectation from reading scripture telling them this is what would happen. This is wrong thinking and they need proper counseling by clergy and Medical Drs. to reprogram their spiritual interpretations. I think that time in prison for this couple and the other couple, would be a deterrent for other radical religious mothers and fathers to rethink how they treat their sick children. I don’t think anyone has served time for this offense, because of the Religious Freedom thing. This is the time. Any clergy in the U.S. that preaches and encourages what they did should get some counseling themselves by other clergy and stop doing this. Their actions led to their daughters death, but it wasn’t their intention for this to happen. I know that many people think prison isn’t a deterrent, and maybe it isn’t in all cases, but to many people it is, and it has shown this.



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Henrietta22

posted May 5, 2008 at 7:12 pm


Just noticed that I got the states mixed up in one of my posts. The state that had a church cemetary with 75 children, etc. was in Oregon, not WI. The little girl, Kara, was in WI.
I would hope that the imprisonment for these parents wouldn’t be more than a couple of years, and that counseling be included with the sentence. If it were shorter it wouldn’t be much of a deterrent to any others like them. Hopefully others would seek counseling for their families when they hear of the Neumans rec. theirs. To let our sympathies rule our heads and let this go, as it has in the past, is a distortion of “Freedom of Religion”, as it was meant to be.



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Cassie

posted May 9, 2008 at 8:05 pm


My mom told me once, that when she was camping as a little girl, she witnessed a car run over another little girl in the road. The driver immediately got out to help, and tried calling paramedics, but the parents refused any medical help for their child.
My mom watched in horror as the family stood there, praying their daughter would miraculously become healed. Needless to say, the child died soon thereafter.
Such a tragic situation like this could have been prevented, had the parents gotten the help their child desperately needed. God wants us to be protectors of our children, and that includes helping to prevent their deaths.



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Bill

posted May 15, 2008 at 4:39 pm


They treated their daughter like property



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