By Michele Chabin
Religion News Service
Jerusalem – When Kyle Edenzon showed up for his first day of Hebrew school as a young boy, his parents asked the teacher to place their hard-of-hearing son in the front row to better help him understand the lessons.
“But as soon as they left, the teacher put me in the back and basically said, `You’re on your own,”‘ said Edenzon, 21, of Northridge, Calif. “I was maybe 5 years old and cried hysterically. I didn’t go back till I was 11 or 12.”
For many deaf and hard-of-hearing Jews, Edenzon’s experience unfortunately isn’t that unusual. Deaf interpreters are expensive and sometimes hard to come by, and many synagogues simply aren’t equipped to work with deaf students.
The result, observers say, are young Jews who lack the religious education that so many take for granted — especially in a tradition that places so much emphasis on the (spoken) language of prayer and sacred chanting.
As he gathered with other young pilgrims in the shady courtyard of an arts center for elderly and disabled Jerusalemites, Edenzon clutched a hand-woven prayer shawl with a newfound tactile sense of faith that words could never express.
His parents, he said in a clear voice that he had worked hard to develop, worked “harder than any parents I’ve ever seen to spark a love of Judaism. I told them, `Thank you for making me come to Israel. I’ve grown in ways I never anticipated.”‘
Edenzon was one of 22 deaf or hard-of-hearing pilgrims who came here as part of Birthright Israel, a program that has sent nearly 190,000 young Jews on free trips to Israel in hopes of sparking a sense of Jewish identity and love for Israel.
This year’s crop of 22 participants and 17 hearing counterparts, translators and chaperons did everything other Birthrighters do — they toured Jerusalem, climbed the mountain fortress of Masada and partied in Tel Aviv; they scarfed down falafel and hung out with Israeli soldiers (in this case, deaf ones).
The sole difference for hearing-impaired Birthrighters is how they communicate and absorb information, organizers say, which is an important factor in trip planning.
“The main issue is communication,” said Dennis Kirschbaum, Hillel’s associate vice president for field operations, who accompanied the group. “The group is a mixture of deaf/hard-of-hearing students and hearing ones, so you need different kinds of interpreters.”
And planning.
For starters, “you need sign-language interpreters for the deaf students and also for the English-speaking (hearing) students who don’t understand Hebrew,” Kirschbaum said. “You even need interpreting between the American deaf and hearing students and the deaf Israeli soldiers who accompany the group because American Sign Language and Hebrew Sign Language are different.”
Not to mention time.
“First you have to get everyone’s attention and that takes time,” said Kirschbaum, himself the father of two deaf children. Second, “give the explanations either before or after an activity” because a pilgrim who’s trying to safely descend a steep hill can’t also focus their eyes and attention on a translator.
The differences of a deaf trip were noticeable during the stop in the shady stone courtyard of Yad LaKashish, the arts workshop for elderly and disabled Jerusalemites. When it came time for the tour and explanation, most pilgrims focused their eyes not on the center’s English-speaking guide but on the sign-language translators whose hands moved rapidly to convey her words.
Birthright has hosted deaf and hard-of-hearing young Jews for five years; it took two or three years after the first Birthright trip in 2000 to adjust the regular program to the needs of hearing-impaired participants, said Birthright marketing director Gidi Mark.
Rabbi Jennifer Gravitz, a Hillel chaplain at the Rochester Institute of Technology in upstate New York, where about 10 percent of students are hearing impaired, said deaf students pose an extra educational challenge for Birthright staff because most have received little or no Jewish education due to disability-related exclusion.
“In most shuls (synagogues) and educational settings, there isn’t anyone qualified to interpret, period, and the result is very large gaps in knowledge and understanding,” she said.
That dearth of basic knowledge meant that even at the Western Wall, one of Judaism’s holiest sites, “some of the deaf students didn’t have the educational or emotional connection. This was also true of some of the hearing students, but to a lesser degree.”
But for young Jews like Edenzon and Jason Wagner, a 24-year-old recent graduate of the Rochester Institute of Technology, the experience fills in the gaps they missed back home.
Speaking with the help of an interpreter at Yad LaKashish, Wagner said his hearing parents sent him to Hebrew school but “I didn’t really understand anything so I didn’t continue.”
When it came time to prepare for his bar mitzvah, “a translator taught me a few hours for a year. In the end, a deaf teacher helped me prepare for my aliyah,” being called up to the Torah.
One of the highlights of Wagner’s first-ever trip to Israel, he said, was meeting deaf and hard-of-hearing Israeli soldiers.
Glancing over at Rafi Adler a deaf 25-year-old who serves in the Israeli Air Force, Wanger said, “They prove that deaf people are capable of doing just about anything.”
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posted August 5, 2008 at 7:54 pm
We spend so much time and energy on The Word, that we forget just what it means for some people. It is not always audible, which goes to prove even more that the power of faith is not based on magical incantations (Otherwise there might have been some deaf wizardlings at Hogwarts). I am impressed not only at the young man’s perseverence, but also in his parents’.
God’s Word, however that is understod by people, is known in many ways by different people. Blessings on them all.
posted August 5, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Given the age (21) of Edenzon I’m a little surprised that his Hebrew School wouldn’t accomadate his hearing loss by getting someone to help him. (he was 5…putting him in the first row was so hard??). What a shame. He and those like him in the Jewish community can’t participate without assistance. I know the explanation was lack of money for an interpreter, but to me that seems to be a poor excuse.
Much credit to Birthright Israel for putting together the trips for the young folks with hearing problems.
posted August 5, 2008 at 8:36 pm
They could have taught them still a great deal more about Israel if they’d had them spend some time in Gaza, seeing how those folks live under Israel’s rule. Or probably even the West Bank. But I doubt that kind of education was on their agenda at all. No doubt they did talk about the hardships the conflict causes the Israelis.
But if the Middle East is to be solved we don’t need still more people who see just one side, especially in the US.
posted August 5, 2008 at 9:36 pm
Only you could take an uplifting story about helping handicapped people and turn it into something ugly.
Well even you can’t spoil it. You can just be read through and ignored.
Hey, maybe we can take little Arab children and force them to see how police pick up every little piece of torn flesh and bone after a homicide bombing. I bet if we did that they wouldn’t be so hot to blow themselves up. Because if the Middle East is to be solved we don’t need still more people who see just one side, especially in the every Arab country.
posted August 5, 2008 at 10:38 pm
I’m in favor of both sides learning more about the other side. So yes, I’m for what you suggested. I’d like each to learn so much about the other at a young age they at least understand each other better. But it’s especially bad for my country (my country is the USA) when we get even more US citizens who only see that one side.
And I don’t see it being ugly to urge still more education.
posted August 5, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Birthright Israel is a private organization funded by private individuals for the benefit of Jewish Americans and Jewish Americans alone. I see no reason why we (because I’m a contributer to BI) should hand over our hard-earned funds so that our children can be indoctrinated by our enemies.
I’m sorry if you think that’s bad for your country. I think children raised to see democracy at work in other parts of the globe is good for the USA.
posted August 5, 2008 at 11:48 pm
“Birthright Israel”
Just that name alone is an invitation for comment but this is not the place.
posted August 6, 2008 at 12:00 am
To what extent is BI for the benefit of Jewish Americans and to what extent for the benefit of Israel by propagandizing some Americans to see one side of what’s really a complex issue?
posted August 6, 2008 at 8:09 am
BI is to help young Jewish Americans forge a bond with the Jewish state so that they will support it and also know that it is their escape hatch if the people who hate us ever get a foot-hold here.
It wouldn’t matter if young Jews never partook of BI – their parents would make sure they grew up knowing which side is right. It’s never to you to start teaching children the truth – I started teaching mine at 8.
posted August 6, 2008 at 8:38 am
“BI is to help young Jewish Americans forge a bond with the Jewish state so that they will support it and also know that it is their escape hatch if the people who hate us ever get a foot-hold here.”
And maybe to create more voters who will help force the US to remain one-sided on Middle Eastern issues (thus hurting us)? I’d guess, yes. And I don’t think you have to take people to Israel in order for them to know it’s there and that it’s available to them.
Unfortunately some of the “people who hate us [Jews]” have more than a foot-hold, here but still I think a great majority of US citizens would not go down the kind of road so many of the German people, with their anti-Jewish religious upbringings, did. But we have to fight against the hate-mongers and the fear-mongers like the Bush administration who create fear then use it to take away our rights. That’s the kind of thing that helped lead to the Holocaust.
posted August 6, 2008 at 9:35 am
At some point in history, every nation gets tired of its Jews and rescinds its welcome. The same will happen here eventually. We will need a place to go, and Israel is it. So, yeah, we will go overboard to make sure we don’t wind up in the ovens again.
I think we have far too much in the way of relationships with non-Jews in this country as it is. It tricks us into letting our guard down and thinking we’re thought of as just like you.
posted August 6, 2008 at 12:11 pm
Birthright Israel”
Just that name alone is an invitation for comment but this is not the place.
Oh? And why should this time be any different than usual?
posted August 6, 2008 at 6:22 pm
ec-l? you have to ask?
posted August 6, 2008 at 7:01 pm
Scott you and your people are thought of as Americans, and that makes you one of us. There will never be 100% of approval for anyone or anything, so just live your life with peace and joy.
posted August 6, 2008 at 8:32 pm
“Scott you and your people are thought of as Americans, and that makes you one of us.”
Exactly so.
posted August 6, 2008 at 8:36 pm
ec-l? you have to ask?
Why, yes, CK, I do have to ask. Be up front with your insult, please, whether it’s trying to turn my screen name into something it’s not and insult me personally, or whether you insult Jews and Israel.
Don’t be shy, now.
posted August 6, 2008 at 10:28 pm
Henrietta,
Jews are only thought of as citizens of their particular country when the times are good. When things go bad…nope. Europe solved the Depression on the backs of us.
posted August 7, 2008 at 11:37 am
Scott, other countries have done that, but not America, we’re different.
posted August 7, 2008 at 11:50 am
No we aren’t.
Did you know Gen. Grant expelled the Jews from Kentucky and parts of Tennessee during the Civil War because he thought we were “alien”? Lincoln over-ruled him.
We’re not different at all, and all it takes is time. And you’ll have to forgive some of us for being wary – you only need to know Jewish history to know why.
posted August 7, 2008 at 12:34 pm
Henrietta,
I can’t blame Scott for being so wary. We would like to believe that the USA is different, but take Europe as an example. When Poland was going through hard economic times in the middle of the last millenium, it asked Jews to come back and help. For hundreds of years, we though we were welcome. Turned out, we were wrong. England kicked us out 4 times during the last millenium. In Poland, anti-Semitism is alive and well. True also all over South America and in many parts of the U.S., even if in the U.S., it’s not officially condoned by the Govt – so many parts of the populace have no problem expresiing it.
There’s not really a place where we have been made to feel “at home”. How many article have you read about us controlling banks, newspapers, Hollywood, etc, etc, and the “undue” influence we as well as the “Israeli lobby” have on the U.S, supposedly in contradiction to the influence any other group has on Congress and our Representatives?
It’s frightenting and hard not to be on tenterhooks.
posted August 7, 2008 at 1:04 pm
I also group up in a family of Holocaust survivors, so we’ve always had our bags packed (so to speak).
posted August 7, 2008 at 3:26 pm
When you’ve got to reach back a millennium to keep separation and contempt alive and do it there will be a reoccurring theme to your existence. There are some things a people (any people) should hold on to and some they should just let go.
posted August 7, 2008 at 4:06 pm
I also group up in a family of Holocaust survivors,
Scott, I share your history, in that I think you know both my parents were Holocaust survivors, both the only ones left of their families.
There are some things a people (any people) should hold on to and some they should just let go.
Yeah, yeah, you’re one to talk about just letting go. What arrogance. Your own frequently revealed prejudice is reason enough to remain on guard.
Should I “just let go” of my parents’ (and my own) pain? My mom is still with me and still can’t talk about her experience. It’s not ancient history to me.
Those who don’t remember history are doomed to repeat it.
posted August 7, 2008 at 4:47 pm
Let it go CK? Like you let go of slavery and segregation? Hmmm?
Our Holocaust wasn’t a millennium ago, and frankly I have no clue what you think you’re talking about, but truthfully, when I speak of the need of remaining on guard, I’m thinking of you.
posted August 7, 2008 at 6:35 pm
ecl and ScottR:
Let go of your history? I don’t think so!! No one should EVER forget the Holocaust…no matter what faith they belong to.
posted August 7, 2008 at 6:54 pm
addition: “…no matter what faith they belong to or if indeed they belong to no particular faith. Never let go of your history. It is part of everyones history in one way or another.
posted August 8, 2008 at 4:42 pm
“Let it go CK? Like you let go of slavery and segregation? Hmmm?”
I do let it go until “you” bring it up, then I comment but it does not dictate how I live.
posted August 8, 2008 at 6:08 pm
I do let it go until “you” bring it up, then I comment but it does not dictate how I live.
First off, you’re wrong. You bring it up all the time.
Second. your use of quotation marks is incorrect.
Third, I bring it up so that it won’t dictate how I die.
posted August 8, 2008 at 11:41 pm
To be consumed with death is to die no wonder some folk are so depressing
posted August 9, 2008 at 9:11 am
Heartless comment. You dismiss our experience with the Holocaust.
It is to be consumed with staying alive.
I’d rather be “depressing” than follow a religion that teaches how not to have empathy for our fellow human beings.
posted August 9, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Wow, has this conversation degenerated! I thought it was a pretty nice story. I guess we can plumb the depths of any number of issues – and still not scratch the surface! How delightfully paradoxical – Quack & QUACK!