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Buddhist Quote of the Day: Dealing With Emotions

Tuesday October 6, 2009

Categories: Buddhism
meditation_emotions_buddhism.jpgby Ethan Nichtern

Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche is one of the finest Tibetan Buddhist teachers in America, in my humble opinion. Funnier than most comedians and sharper than most scholars, I would encourage you to check him out. Somebody buy this man a cup of Starbucks coffee (which he loves). Here he talks about recognizing emotions.

"When we recognize an emotion, such as strong passion accompanied by jealousy, we are actually breaking down the speed of that emotion. The total sense of recognition is important in both Sutra and Tantra. In Sutra, it is mindfulness. In Tantra, if we see that nature and look at it nakedly, we will see the nature of that wisdom. You don't need to logically apply any reasoning. You don't need to conceptually meditate on anything. Just simply recognize and observe it....We will have the experience of that wisdom by simply being with it without conception. Therefore, recognition is quite important.

"The first step is just simply to observe it. Simply recognize the emotion and then watch it as it grows or as it continues. Just simply watch it. In the beginning, just to have an idea that [the emotion] is coming is very important and effective. In the Vajrayana [Tantric] sense, the way to watch these emotions is without stopping them. If we recognize the emotion and say, "Yes, it is passion," and then try to stop it, that's a problem. Rejection our emotions is a problem in Vajrayana.

-Dzogchen Ponlop Rinpoche
Penetrating Wisdom

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homeopathie
October 7, 2009 3:59 AM
http://www.vitabits.fr/herbes-chinoises

Hello..
This is rally true that we all should recognize the emotion but I think it is quite hard to observe our emotions but we should try this.Thank you for sharing this with us.

homeopathie
October 7, 2009 5:03 AM
http://www.vitabits.fr/herbes-chinoises

Hello
I just read your post and I am also agreed that we all should recognize our emotion.I think may be it is quite difficult to observe an emotion first time.Thank you for sharing this with us.

Adam Liss
October 7, 2009 9:11 PM

In my experience, emotions can indeed be observed. We can, with practice, identify the emotion, accept its presence and then dropping down into the body, become aware of concomitant physical sensations that arise. Allowing ourselves to experience the emotions and the sensations that are present without judgment or manipulation will allow impermanence to take its course. Impermanence means things will always change (as long as we are not holding on to them).

S K Wong
October 7, 2009 9:54 PM

Its easy to recognize your emotion. You need practice, consciously ask yourself, "which image of you is behind each attempt to do something every moment". When you are angry, first you have to be mindful that you are angry, then ask your self which emotion is behind that "angry" emotion. You can picture that shadow of you or an image. That image is your emotion, then feel that emotion, observe that emotion, just feel that feeling. Trace that emotion to the source. The moment you bring up the emotion it may just disappear.

Anan E. Maus
October 8, 2009 7:40 AM

As many have said, meditation produces insight. Long meditation produces great insight. Insight into every single manner and experience.

That being said, the eye of insight is not a superior consciousness to that of spiritual emotion. It is good to use wisdom and insight to keep a check on errant emotion, so that the emotions stay spiritual. But the insight itself is not the "stuff" it is just the eye watching the "stuff."

They say that the chakras are "jealous" or "addictive." That the third eye with its knowledge and insight wants to dominate the being. The heart, with its spiritual emotions of unity, friendship, caring and etc. also wants to dominate the being. As do the lower chakras. So, when mind is engaged, we get the spiritual qualities of the mind, but we also get its attachment to itself and its stubborn refusal to allow the other aspects of the being their proper functioning.

That is one danger of meditative practice, to allow an aspect of the being, like insight, so dominate the being that the consciousness becomes skewed - into some place of "insight only."

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