I had my meeting with the Pope today at his Wednesday audience. Let me first give you an idea of the setting.
There were approximately fifteen thousand people from all over the world gathered in St. Peter’s Square speaking an untold number of languages. The sun shone very brightly. The day was perfect. The Pope arrived in his pope-mobile to great excitement and fanfare. His vehicle was open-top. I assumed they didn’t need the protective bubble that has become so iconic on TV because there was security screening for each person present. As the Pope drove among the crowd they shouted ‘Viva Papa – Long live the Pope.’ There seemed to be genuine affection and excitement among the Catholic pilgrims who had gathered from all over the world.
The pope drove up the incline and arrived in front of St. Peter’s
Basilica. The people who were there to meet him sat on both sides of his dais.
There were clergymen from all over the world: Cardinals, Bishops, and priests
from the Catholic Church. I sat next to three Anglican Bishops from the UK.
With me was my friend Gary Krupp, head of the Pave the Way Foundation, who had
arranged the visit and several of his officers.
The Pope read greetings in five languages and an American priest
welcomed our group publicly from the Pope’s dais. The Pope waved to us.
When the formal ceremony, lasting about two hours ended, the Pope
came off his dais and moved along the receiving line to greet us. Gary
introduced me to the Pope warmly with my formal titles. I gave the Pope a
special gift we had gotten for him. It was a beautiful dual-time Phillip Stein
watch. The Pope lit up when he saw it and said, “Look, it has two faces on it,”
which, as it happened, was the perfect introduction for me to share the issues
I had prepared. I said, “Pope Benedict, it’s an honor to meet you. This watch
has the times of Rome and Jerusalem on it, signifying the eternal friendship
between our two faiths. I also hope that when you wear it the future of the Jew
people will always be on your mind, as Israel struggles with existential
threats, like Iran, who threaten to wipe it off the map. You’re voice against
these threats is essential, your holiness.”
He said ‘Yes,’ nodding his head in agreement, and I continued.
”In addition, Your holiness, the dual clock face is a symbol
of my request that you please join us in establishing a global family dinner
night which we call, ‘Turn Friday Night into Family Night.’ It involves what we
call the triple two. Two hours of uninterrupted time that parents give their
kids, inviting two guests, just as I am your guest today, and discussing two
important subjects.”
While I said this Pope Benedict again nodded.
I concluded, ‘Your holiness, it’s so important that our two
religions work together on this.’ He said warmly, ‘We will work together. We
will work together.’ He held my hand while we spoke. The watch we gave the Pope
as a gift has special resonance because the owner, Will Stein, is an orthodox
German who converted to Judaism.
I had invited my close friends David Victor, Chairman of the Board
of AIPAC, and Rodney Adler, to the meeting with the Pope. Rodney emphasized to
the Pope the importance of partnering with me on creating an international
family dinner night and how much he believed in the idea. The Pope again warmly
agreed. David then respectfully, but firmly, pressed the Pope on the need to
address the Iran crisis, ‘a regime which denies the Holocaust and threatens to
destroy Israel and is building nuclear weapons.’ The Pope said, “I have spoken
about it and will continue to.”
As soon as the meeting was over, I was granted another meeting with
Cardinal Walter Casper, President of the Pontifical Council for Christian
Unity.’ Gary introduced me to the Cardinal and made a strong pitch for the
importance of the worldwide Church partnering with us to create our
international family dinner initiative. The Cardinal, a very pleasant priest
from Germany who has been close friends with Pope Benedict for forty years,
strongly endorsed the idea and related his memories of family dinners with his
own parents.
I made the case to the Cardinal that the pedophile priest scandal
has many influential American commentators skewering the Church for being an
all-boys club, seemingly anti-family. It was essential, I argued, that the
Church recapture its reputation as one of the world’s foremost champions of the
family. He agreed emphatically and said he agreed that the Church should
partner with us.
My friend David Victor then again brought up the threat that Iran
poses to Israel. The Cardinal said that Iran’s nuclear program is a threat to
the world. He asked David to write to him and Cardinal Bertone, the Cardinal
Secretary of State, with suggestions of what could be done.
It was an exciting day. Five of my nine children were with me, as
well as both my parents.
I’ll share more later, G-d willing.
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is founder of This
World: The Values Network. On May 14th he
will publish his major work on Jewish values, Renewal: A Guide to the
Values-Filled Life. www.shmuley.com
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posted April 28, 2010 at 3:31 pm
Rabbi,
What a splendid account of meeting with the Holy Father. You may know of him by another title,,, “The Servant of the servants.” I look forward to reading your Guide to the Vaules Filled Life. In the meantime you maybe interested in reading one of my recent posts below.
Michael
Exodus, E Pluribus Unum and an American story
Saturday, April 24, 2010 at 02:32PM
In reading America’s Prophet… Moses and the American Story by Bruce Feiler, I am reminded there are many lesson which every American history teacher should know, not the least of which is how prominently the Judeo part of our Graeco-Roman-Judeo-Christian Culture is and should be celebrated by all Americans. The quotation on the face of the Liberty Bell is from Leviticus, words which God gave to Moses on Mount Sinai: “Proclaim liberty throughout all the land unto all the inhabitants thereof.” It is fitting that the law of Sinai hangs in the bell tower where the Declaration of Independence was signed. Providence has indeed favored our undertakings… “Annuit Coeptis.”
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posted April 29, 2010 at 10:42 am
So, does the Pope sleep in a hyperbaric chamber like your late friend Michael Jackson? Or, does he sleep in a coffin containing unconsecrated earth?
posted April 29, 2010 at 11:55 am
Did you see this? http://www.newsru.com/religy/29apr2010/boteakh.html
posted April 30, 2010 at 2:05 am
A family night with expanded community of Christians, Jews and others is a good idea.
The question is how to get it started.
That way I can sometimes have some Kosher cooking without having to walk into a Kosher restaurant unaccompanied by Jews (I would not do that. I would go if I went with Jews but not without accompaning Jews)
posted May 2, 2010 at 8:54 pm
I just want to strenuously object to Boteach’s column title, in which he describes himself as “America’s rabbi”.
As an American Jew, I want to categorically refute the notion that Boteach is a rabbi or spiritual leader in the eyes of anyone in the American Jewish community other than Mr. Boteach himself. Rather, Mr. Boteach, who seeks out the limelight to preach his personal brand of for-profit sanctimony, is at odds with the particular hasidic group that once bestowed the honorific “rabbi” on him, and is more an embarrassment than a moral compass to the American Jewish community at large.
I don’t begrudge Mr. Boteach his rights to free speech and to make a living, but I do resent his over-the-top, in-your-face representation of himself and his largely non-Jewish ideas as enjoying a leadership position over me and my community.
posted May 7, 2010 at 1:46 pm
Sorry, but…it sounds like any other political gathering. Hand-shaking, a lot of ‘ yes, yes ‘, promises…but at the end of the day i imagine the pope, like the typical politicians, hardly remembers anything that was said or assented to, or promised…these people have so much on their plates, and in the case of the pope, too many fine meals – exquisite meals – while Jesus counseled, ” give up all you have to the poor, and then follow me.” Rabbi, it seems incredible you could be taken aback with such a demonstration…cynical ? Maybe.
You be the judge.