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Rich Cizik and civil unions

 

Monday December 15, 2008

Well, I guess Dobson's taken down another NAE leader for not towing the party line. He couldn't get him ousted over his global warming position (as if that had anything to do with sharing the gospel) but he could over the gay marriage issue:

With Cizik's resignation, Dobson and his allies finally claimed victory. "This sends the message that you can't leave the reservations on basic issues of where your constituency lies," says Family Research Council President Tony Perkins. "A number of left-leaning evangelicals had started believing their own press, saying that evangelicals were not concerned with issues of marriage and family. The NAE found out this week that their members do care about those issues."

In an interview with National Public Radio host Terry Gross that aired on December 2, Cizik responded to question about gay marriage by saying, "I'm shifting, I have to admit. In other words, I would willingly say I believe in civil unions. I don't officially support redefining marriage from its traditional definition, I don't think."

Even evangelical figures who'd supported Cizik's environmental activism were troubled by the comments. "I don't know what was going on in his head," says Christianity Today Editor David Neff, an NAE board member and a Cizik ally on environmental issues. "When I heard that interview, I said to myself 'Good grief--what are you talking about?' That was not the Richard I knew."

According to a statement posted on the NAE's website Cizik acknowledged that he misspoke during the NPR interview. "Although he has subsequently expressed regret, apologized, and affirmed our values there is a loss of trust in his credibility as a spokesperson among leaders and constituents," NAE President Leith Anderson said in a letter to the organization's board of directors."

I guess this means I'm off the reservation because I think it's reasonable to support civil unions as a compromise position especially given the fact that we live in a post-Christian, pluralistic country. The definition of marriage would be protected and the rights of gays would be protected as well. Good thing I'm not in a position of power, huh? I'd probably be driven out for my views on marriage (since I'm a chick I don't ever have to worry about that :-).

But I'm glad to say I'm not the only one who has come to this conclusion, John H. Armstrong notes that civil unions make sense if you want to protect marriage as a religious union (that should upset the atheists):

As you can readily see "civil unions" has a very broad definitional scope but in almost no case is it seen as (Christian) marriage. The very term "civil" means non-religious. For this reason alone civil unions are not gay marriage. Whether we like it or not civil unions already exist and are not likely to go away. It seems to me that the best place for a Christian to stand in this current cultural milieu and radical change is to protect marriage as an essentially religious union and civil unions as something different. It also seems to me that Cizik was making such a distinction.
And Steve Waldman notes that when he interviewed Rick Warren, he seemed to support civil unions :
Beliefnet: Do you support civil unions or domestic partnerships?

Warren: I don't know if I'd use the term there but I support full equal rights for everybody in America. I don't believe we should have unequal rights depending on particular lifestyles so I fully support equal rights.

Beliefnet: What about partnership benefits in terms of insurance or hospital visitation?

Warren: You know, not a problem with me.

You can watch the whole interview here.

I think it's the only reasonable solution and one that would help resolve the culture war but of course the Christian side has just demonstrated that they aren't giving any ground and if you have an opposing position, you aren't really on their side. Oh well, I'm a follower of Christ, I'm used to being on the outside :-)

ESV Hebrews 13:11 For the bodies of those animals whose blood is brought into the holy places by the high priest as a sacrifice for sin are burned outside the camp. 12 So Jesus also suffered outside the gate in order to sanctify the people through his own blood. 13 Therefore let us go to him outside the camp and bear the reproach he endured. 14 For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the city that is to come. 15 Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name.

BTW, I agree wholeheartedly with Warren that if we really cared about the sanctity of marriage, we would be supporting it with our actions. Why are the divorce rates in the Christian community as high as the general population if we really believed in the sanctity of marriage? We have no credibility because our actions do not mirror our words. And don't even get me started on the Republicans parroting this phrase!

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jestrfyl
December 15, 2008 2:16 PM

Ah, the actual images of metaphors can be telling. Though Cisik was not TOEing the line (as in standing perfectly in a uniform row with everyone else) he was TOWing the line (your choice of words - as in pulling the line out of place and accidently dragging everything with it behind him). Dobson was surely afraid that anyone who does toe the line will tow the line. For that reason alone I would likely heel the line for him - and then bend over to "tie my shoe". There's an image for you. Rude, but illustrative.

Lefty Attack Hamster
December 15, 2008 5:18 PM

Nothing for a liberal to attack here (and that's not meant as an insult to you as a conservative). A very sensible post, Michelle. Lefty Attack Hamster will return another day.

Connie Coyne
December 15, 2008 6:15 PM
http://www.reflectionsofchrist.org

Rick Warren will change his position and help push towards same sex marriage. He is such a powerful pastor. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sLkioKFLEE

Your Name
December 16, 2008 7:36 AM

I agree with the hamster? Who would have guessed!

You captured my position exactly, Michelle? While the sacrement of marriage is one man one woman, why blame pagans for doing their job description? (Quoting Hank Hanagraaf).

According to the Bible, homosexuality is a sin. So is greed, gluttony, drunkenness, lust, divorce, and many other items which are far more distructive to others. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'll get this plank out of my eye before I bother with the speck in yours.

Your Name
December 16, 2008 10:56 AM

Re your "reasonable" approach ...

"I think it's reasonable to support civil unions as a compromise position especially given the fact that we live in a post-Christian, pluralistic country. The definition of marriage would be protected and the rights of gays would be protected as well."

The rights of gays are not "protected" with "civil" unions, Michelle. You well know (or ought to - you've been told often enough) that there are 1,176 federal benefits and obligations (aka the "affects" of marriage) that do not accrue to same-sex couples (because of DOMA). In addition, some 30 States have either passed laws or changed their Constitutions to ensure that "civil" unions (or domestic partnerships, or anything else "resembling" marriage) shall not be recognized - ever! Nor shall the affects of marriage be granted to anyone except a heterosexually married couple. Thus, in Michigan, for instance, employers may not give spousal health care benefits to a gay employee (even one who may have been legally married in another jurisdiction) - even if the employer wanted to.

"Good thing I'm not in a position of power, huh?"

Yes, if your 'understanding' of this issue is any indication, ,it's a very good thing.

"John H. Armstrong notes that civil unions make sense if you want to protect marriage as a religious union"

Except you and he bothfail to address the fact that an increasing number of religions do both support and perform same-sex marriages. How is that "protecting" religious unions, apart from the fact that some religious faiths' unions are recognized by the government while others' are not? That's simply, purely unwarranted, UN-Constitutional discriminationn. It also violates the "promise" of freedom of religion for all citizens.

Please, Michele, get a clue.

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