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		<title>Absolutely. What would you die for?</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/absolutely-what-would-you-die-for.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 18:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I heard a politician tell his audience that he would make sure a certain bill was put forward because of the emotional wear and tear on victims of violence. He got applause. I thought about what he had said. Is that how laws are made...because events stir up emotions so we grab something that will soothe us at the moment? We'll put a patch on it and hope it holds for a while. I thought about this politicians's statement - was his action rooted in emotion?  Is that how Benjamin...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/absolutely-what-would-you-die-for.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently I heard a politician tell his audience that he would make sure a certain bill was put forward because of the emotional wear and tear on victims of violence. He got applause. I thought about what he had said. Is that how laws are made...because events stir up emotions so we grab something that will soothe us at the moment? We'll put a patch on it and hope it holds for a while. I thought about this politicians's statement - was his action rooted in emotion?  Is that how Benjamin...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/absolutely-what-would-you-die-for.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Violence!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Apr 2013 12:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The news is full of reports of violence. Homemade bombs explode killing and wounding. We are outraged and angry. Sad and bewildered. Understandably. We are so blessed to live in a country where these things are the exception rather than the rule. There are places where this is almost a daily occurrence - like Israel. Do we give it much thought as we watch the news each day and hear of a bomb going off in some other land? I don't think so. Our concern lasts only as long as it remains in the news....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/violence.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[The news is full of reports of violence. Homemade bombs explode killing and wounding. We are outraged and angry. Sad and bewildered. Understandably. We are so blessed to live in a country where these things are the exception rather than the rule. There are places where this is almost a daily occurrence - like Israel. Do we give it much thought as we watch the news each day and hear of a bomb going off in some other land? I don't think so. Our concern lasts only as long as it remains in the news....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/violence.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Suicide</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/suicide.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Apr 2013 19:48:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I didn't wake up today thinking my life would change. But it has.

Suicide. The word is so cold and ugly. It is so stark and final. And yet it leaves so much behind. Unanswered questions. Unfinished business. Unspeakable grief.

The word means "the intentional taking of one's own life". Intentional destruction. I hate it.

Today a dear friend of mine died at his own hand. I am heart broken for his dear wife and family, our community.

Why? Why? Why?

There are no words...and even if...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/suicide.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[I didn't wake up today thinking my life would change. But it has.

Suicide. The word is so cold and ugly. It is so stark and final. And yet it leaves so much behind. Unanswered questions. Unfinished business. Unspeakable grief.

The word means "the intentional taking of one's own life". Intentional destruction. I hate it.

Today a dear friend of mine died at his own hand. I am heart broken for his dear wife and family, our community.

Why? Why? Why?

There are no words...and even if...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/04/suicide.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He is Risen!</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/he-is-risen.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Mar 2013 10:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hallelujah! ...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/he-is-risen.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hallelujah! ...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/he-is-risen.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Guns, My Mother and Easter</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 21:37:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The news is full of the gun control issue. Everyone seems to be concerned...I am beginning to wonder if I should go out and buy one just because I can and perhaps one day I will not be allowed to or  so the pundits would make us think. Members of my family - even the women - have armed themselves. I am quite sure that if I had one, I would not  know where to store it so that I might have easy access in case of an emergency. And I am very sure if there was such an emergency, I'd be so...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/guns-my-mother-and-easter.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[The news is full of the gun control issue. Everyone seems to be concerned...I am beginning to wonder if I should go out and buy one just because I can and perhaps one day I will not be allowed to or  so the pundits would make us think. Members of my family - even the women - have armed themselves. I am quite sure that if I had one, I would not  know where to store it so that I might have easy access in case of an emergency. And I am very sure if there was such an emergency, I'd be so...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/guns-my-mother-and-easter.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dennis Rodman</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/dennis-rodman.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Mar 2013 20:58:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The last post I wrote about silence in Heaven. Perhaps you are wondering - or not - why I have been silent. I have been traveling! My creativity does not travel well and my focus is on the task at hand.

And to be honest I have not yet figured out to use my technological gadgets to write and post while away from home. I do not have a laptop...writing in a hotel business office on a PC makes me crazy. I have an iMac at home which talks a different language - not altogther but different enough....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/dennis-rodman.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[The last post I wrote about silence in Heaven. Perhaps you are wondering - or not - why I have been silent. I have been traveling! My creativity does not travel well and my focus is on the task at hand.

And to be honest I have not yet figured out to use my technological gadgets to write and post while away from home. I do not have a laptop...writing in a hotel business office on a PC makes me crazy. I have an iMac at home which talks a different language - not altogther but different enough....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/03/dennis-rodman.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Silence in Heaven</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/02/silence-in-heaven.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2013 15:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The 8th chapter of Revelation, verse 1 says, "And when He broke the seventh seal there was silence in heaven for about half and hour." Think about that. All through Revelation up to this point we have been told that the sound of heaven is like "many waters",  peals of thunder, trumpets, horns, loud voices worshipping and praising God - it's been noisy to say the least! Now there is silence. Why? What caused the abrupt change?

And can you imagine the effect it had on the heavenly residents....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/02/silence-in-heaven.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[The 8th chapter of Revelation, verse 1 says, "And when He broke the seventh seal there was silence in heaven for about half and hour." Think about that. All through Revelation up to this point we have been told that the sound of heaven is like "many waters",  peals of thunder, trumpets, horns, loud voices worshipping and praising God - it's been noisy to say the least! Now there is silence. Why? What caused the abrupt change?

And can you imagine the effect it had on the heavenly residents....<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/02/silence-in-heaven.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Inauguration Day!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jan 2013 15:05:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mr. Obama took the oath of office yesterday, privately. Today it will be public amidst pomp and pageantry. 

Let us pause and pray for this man. He has been placed in this office by God. "But God is the Judge; He puts down one and exalts another." (Psalm 75:7 NAS)  Mr. Obama has a huge responsibility before God and man and he will answer to God for how he stewards this responsibility. Ours is not to judge but to pray. We may not agree. We may not have voted for him. We may not like his...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/inauguration-day.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Mr. Obama took the oath of office yesterday, privately. Today it will be public amidst pomp and pageantry. 

Let us pause and pray for this man. He has been placed in this office by God. "But God is the Judge; He puts down one and exalts another." (Psalm 75:7 NAS)  Mr. Obama has a huge responsibility before God and man and he will answer to God for how he stewards this responsibility. Ours is not to judge but to pray. We may not agree. We may not have voted for him. We may not like his...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/inauguration-day.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Lance Armstrong</title>
		<link>http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/lance-armstrong.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2013 19:26:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Earlier this week I wrote about the desire that we all want to be fully known and understood. It was prompted by Jodie Foster's comment at the Golden Globes.

Many of us live in fear that if we are known people will not love us. We protect our innermost selves at all costs. Lance Armstrong is such a person. And before we are critical of him, we are all like that - maybe not to that extreem but we still protect our own image - sometimes at great cost.

I don't think anyone was surprised by...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/lance-armstrong.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Earlier this week I wrote about the desire that we all want to be fully known and understood. It was prompted by Jodie Foster's comment at the Golden Globes.

Many of us live in fear that if we are known people will not love us. We protect our innermost selves at all costs. Lance Armstrong is such a person. And before we are critical of him, we are all like that - maybe not to that extreem but we still protect our own image - sometimes at great cost.

I don't think anyone was surprised by...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/lance-armstrong.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>To Be Known</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jan 2013 14:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ruth Graham</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jodie Foster made this  statement last night at the Golden Globes, "I want to be seen, to be understood deeply and to be not so very lonely."

Deep down we all long to be authentic and have authentic relationships. Yet so many of us are living a life behind masks because we are not the same on the inside as what we project on the outside. We project an image to suit the crowd we are with. We live in fear that someone will see the real “us” and won’t like what they see. Simon...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/to-be-known.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[Jodie Foster made this  statement last night at the Golden Globes, "I want to be seen, to be understood deeply and to be not so very lonely."

Deep down we all long to be authentic and have authentic relationships. Yet so many of us are living a life behind masks because we are not the same on the inside as what we project on the outside. We project an image to suit the crowd we are with. We live in fear that someone will see the real “us” and won’t like what they see. Simon...<p><a href="http://blog.beliefnet.com/safeplacewithruthgraham/2013/01/to-be-known.html">Read the full post here &raquo;</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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