Steven Waldman

My Common Ground Fantasy

Tuesday June 16, 2009

When it comes to abortion, my "common ground" fantasy involves a pro-life leader standing up and declaring, "We will be open to looking at family planning efforts, including contraception, to reduce the number of abortions." This would be followed by a pro-choicer saying, "we accept that society would be better if there were fewer abortions."

Let's unpack why these sentences don't normally get spoken, and why it's important that they are.

If you dropped in from another planet and were asked who would be the strongest advocates for birth control, you might well say, "the people who care most about eliminating abortion." Yet the opposite is the case. Why?

The pro-life movement, like any movement, is a coalition. The Catholic Church is hugely important player in the pro-life coalition and, for reasons largely unrelated to abortion, they oppose birth control. Conservative evangelicals often oppose family planning for different reasons, a fear that it will lead to promiscuity and a de-sacralization of sex.

I'm not minimizing their reasons - the Church's teachings on sex are thought-provoking, and as the parent of teenagers, I find much merit in the Christian argument about the dangers of casual sex.

But they are not fundamentally about abortion. So pro-lifers need to decide which of their beliefs is more important: their concern for the unborn or their concerns about the nature of premarital sex.

Some pro-lifers try to avoid this trade off by asserting that family planning wouldn't be effective in reducing the number of abortions -- because contraception would encourage sex, which leads to more unintended pregnancies and therefore abortions. But this is a practical, not a philosophical view. So a truly single-minded pro-lifer, who places reducing the number of abortions above other coalition or philosophical considerations - would say, well this may work or it may not work, but there are so many babies' lives at stakes, it's certainly worth trying.

In other words, what we need are pro-life leaders who are MORE single-issue oriented, more focused on abortion, and able to disentangle their views on abortion from their beliefs about sex or contraception.

As for pro-choicers, they've been all over the map on whether they want fewer abortions. Pro-choice groups cheered when Bill Clinton came up with the "safe, legal and rare" formulation to defend Roe v. Wade.

But more recently they've resisted the idea of "abortion reduction." Melody Barnes, the domestic policy director, was quoted as saying those seeking common ground should avoid using that language and focus instead on reducing the "need" for abortion. In an earlier interview, Barnes said, ""Our goal is to reduce the need for abortions. . . . If people have better access to contraception, that's a way of addressing the issue at its root, rather than do a tally of abortions."

Pro-life writers justifiably have called them out on the inconsistency. Why do you want abortion to be "rare" if there's never anything wrong with them? How do you propose to make them rare without reducing their numbers?

There's also the small matter that these pro-choicers are out of step with what Obama and Biden have promised. During the campaign, Obama said that dealing with unintended pregnancies is "the best answer for reducing abortions." After his election, at Notre Dame, he said, "let's work together to reduce the number of women seeking abortions." Joe Biden was even bolder: "what we're going to be spending our time doing is making sure that we reduce considerably the amount of abortions."

Why are some pro-choicers resisting the abortion reduction language? In part, they feel it is "stigmatizes" women, implying that abortion is immoral. A few responses.
First, having the right to choose does not mean you get to be insulated from the debate about whether your choice is moral in every case. Let's posit that there are some women out there making immoral decisions on abortion - say, getting a late term abortion because they don't like the gender. A pro-choicer can look at that case and still argue simultaneously that a) her choice is immoral b) she should have the right to make it and c) society should try to convince her not to.

Second, wanting to reduce the aggregate number of abortions says nothing about the morality of any individual's decision. It says that as a whole, society would be better off if there were fewer of them - in part because of the reasons that pro-choice activists have been highlighting: it's crazy that a woman's choice of whether to have an abortion should be dictated heavily by finances; it's disturbing that so many teens have babies; it's strange that so many families who want to adopt must go overseas at a time when almost a million women terminate their pregnancies. Those are all good pro-choice-friendly reasons why it's morally preferable as a society that there be fewer abortions.

Third, there's a fear that if you accept abortion reduction language, it will lead to efforts to restrict abortions through laws. But Obama has already dealt with that by declaring that outside the purview of the common ground discussions.

It's hard for pro-choicers to take pro-life "common grounders" seriously if they won't budget on birth control; it's equally hard for pro-lifers to take pro-choice common grounders seriously if they won't accept the basic premise of the exercise. So who will be the brave souls to break that conceptual logjam?

This article also appeared as part this new "Common Ground" web area created by RHReality Check.

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Comments
Guy Allen
June 17, 2009 2:57 PM

Safe Legal and Rare is what we all should be working for.

Panthera
June 17, 2009 3:54 PM

I think safe, legal and rare is a very good basis to begin.

Why don't we concentrate on actually helping young women prevent unwanted pregancies?
Why don't we set aside the hateful, "she got what she deserved" mentality, which lies at the bottom of so much which christianists do to these young women?

Of course, while we're at it, why don't the christianists stop murdering people...I guess that might be a nice place to start.

ShawninPHX
June 18, 2009 4:53 AM

Steven,

As an individual who worked for a pro-choice organization it's painful to see the nit-picking of language, but unfortunately words do have meaning. On the one hand I don't want to see women who terminate their pregnancies stigmatized. On the other, the majority of us in the pro-choice community do wish to see the abortion rate drop (if, for no better reason, to bring down the heated rhetoric).

I would love to see the two sides agree to this statement:

"We, people of all faiths and viewpoints, believe that all families are unique; that situations are individual and laws cannot always resolve individual cases. While in a perfect world the answer to abortion would be simple and straightforward. Yet, we do not live in a perfect world. Thus, we agree that all options must be available to women and men who face decisions regarding an unintended or hardship pregnancy.

We agree that family planning education and resources should be made available from an early age. We agree that sexual education should include not only prevention education, but also resource education (to those who do have an unintended pregnancy, but do not wish to seek a termination). We agree that there will be cases that revolve around fetus' that have/will died in the womb or will perish upon birth. We resolve that non-judgmental counseling and all other available options should be made available in these cases and that we will work toward common ground on resolving these tough choices.

And, foremost, we resolve that the abortion debate is not cut and dry. That many women and men struggle with these choices every day. We resolve to tone down the rhetoric and work to help those in need - regardless of what decision is ahead of them."

Your Name
June 19, 2009 12:40 PM

There is an organization called The Third Way that has a position on this very issue which many here may find thought-provoking and edifying. I'm not a member of this organization, but I have enjoyed their attempts to find "common ground".

Personally, I consider myself "realistically pro-life"*, which means we have zero chance of ever repealing Roe, and I'm pretty sure it would be a mistake if we did criminalize abortion (think Prohibition, or marijuana). But, if it is true that 60% of all abortions are made for economic reasons, all sides on this issue could do much to reduce abortions by removing those economic reasons. At least, a lot more than pro-lifers have done over the last 40 years.

First, the pro-choice folks need to truts us more, and we can create that trust by letting them know we won't stab 'em in the back by trying to criminalize abortion.

*...which other prolifers consider "capitulation".

Paul B
August 16, 2009 6:28 PM

Ok, so here a proposed common interest statement from the other (pro-life) side:

We agree that human life is to be respected, and hold to the fact that a human person and his/her characteristics are determined at conception.
Acknowledging that life is not perfect, we agree that abortion remain legal. Because of the objection of a large part of the populace we agree that taxpayer money not be provided for abortion or its encouragement. We acknowledge that private funds may be spent to assist those who cannot afford it.

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