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Friday July 17, 2009

Dear Time Magazine: And Your Problem With Women Struggling With PPD Is What, Exactly?

I kinda thought that debates about the reality and severity of post-partum depression were settled well before Tom Cruise made an ass of himself prattling on about exercise and vitamins, but apparently not.

Time Magazine published an article last week that questions the seriousness of post-partum depression and questions the utility and good of the Mothers Act, a piece of legislation that would systematize support and services for women struggling with PPD across the US. Which, I suppose, might be explained by citing the need for dialogue and debate yadda yadda, but seriously: how is dialogue about PPD furthered by questioning its seriousness and by questioning - doubting - the women who struggle or have struggled with it (not to mention, getting the facts wrong)? We can't have constructive discussion about PPD and its effects when such conversations proceed from assumptions that women exaggerate the seriousness of their experience or that much of PPD is simply 'baby blues' or that efforts to help women lead inevitably and problematically to pharmaceuticals, because such assumptions shame PPD-sufferers and mothers who have depended upon medication to get through what is one of the most difficult periods of their lives.

Doubting and shaming women who do struggle or have struggled with PPD serves no-one. Time should know better. Better than Tom Cruise, anyway.

Below, the text of an open letter to Time to which I, along with scores of other women who have personal and professional interests in discussions about PPD, was a signatory:


An Open Letter to the Editors of Time:

Time has done a great disservice to all mothers who are suffering and will suffer from postpartum depression (PPD).  In an article called "The Melancholy of Motherhood" journalist Catherine Elton writes a distorted story that no doubt has already begun to confuse and stigmatize women with PPD.   

We cannot understand why Time would choose to sensationalize what is a very serious medical issue for hundreds of thousands of women in the United States each year, and to create controversy around the MOTHERS Act, the one and only piece of legislation that would help to systematize support and services that are sorely lacking in so many places throughout our country.

There are several points in the article that concern us:

1.The MOTHERS Act is not "dividing psychologists" as Elton opines.  The American Psychological Association, the American Psychiatric Association and the National Association of Social Workers wholeheartedly endorse the MOTHERS Act.    In fact, you neglect to mention that much of the medical community supports the bill.  It has been publicly endorsed by the March of Dimes, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, the American College of Nurse Midwives, the National Healthy Mothers Healthy Babies Coalition, and the Association of Women's Health, Obstetric and Neonatal Nurses, among many others.  You didn't represent any of them in your piece, all of which are highly regarded organizations which have a long record of dedication to the health of both mothers and babies.

2. Elton calls screening controversial and infers it may not even work. Many women will tell you that screening saved their lives, and others who were not screened wish they had been so they could have received treatment sooner.  In fact, Elton interviewed at least two such women but they were not represented in the article.  Screening for PPD is an effective way to identify women who may have it.   Both the sensitivity (misses few sufferers) and specificity (some, but not too many false positives) of the widely-used and validated Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale, for instance, is very well-established.  We'd be happy to send you multiple, contemporary, highly-regarded studies that support this.    

3. Elton states that "... increased screening could lead to an increase in mothers being prescribed psychiatric medication unnecessarily."  First, the MOTHERS Act does not require screening.  Second, none of the screening tools for depression were designed to take the place of evaluation by health care professionals, so it is manipulation to suggest that screening alone will yield treatment of any kind or specifically treatment via medication.  In a study of large scale universal screening efforts of more than 1000 pregnant and postpartum women, screening for depression did not lead to greater rates of treatment (Yonkers et al., Psychiatric Services, 2009).  This is because there are many barriers to treatment, regardless of a positive screen.  Additionally, for those who are able and choose to be treated, many women elect methods that don't include medication (Pearlstein et al., Archives of Women's Mental Health, 2006). 

 

4. Time should be more careful when discussing the causes of PPD.  We were surprised to see such a well-regarded publication misrepresent the results of a small research study that provided evidence to support the idea that a subset of women are more susceptible to hormonal changes as a trigger for depression, such as PPD, by prefacing the results with the unsubstantiated statement that "pregnancy hormones ... have little to do with PPD in most cases."  This study showed that for those with a known history of depression, the hormonal changes that occur following delivery may increase one's risk for developing symptoms during the postpartum period.  Yet Elton attempts to use these results to support Michael O'Hara's overgeneralization that women without prior history of "lots of anxiety and depressive symptoms" (what does this even mean objectively?!) "are unlikely to have problems in the postpartum period - not even close to likely."  Reporting results out of context to support the opinions of a source is appalling. 

 

The fact that women who have had depression or anxiety in the past are more likely to experience PPD is nothing new.  This is only one of many risk factors that have been identified.  Your article, however, attempted to make a previous history of depression or anxiety the single key to identifying PPD.  This will lead women who are ill but who have never been clinically diagnosed or treated for a mental illness to believe they must not have PPD.  Many women who suffer will tell you it was the first time they were ever treated for a mental illness and the first time they came to realize they may have suffered from depression or anxiety in the past.  You also leave out women who have no history of depression or anxiety but ended up with PPD for other reasons.  Perhaps you were not aware, for instance, that diabetes is a risk factor for PPD (Kozhimannil et al., JAMA, 2009), as is thyroiditis.  Women who deliver multiples or have babies born with serious health problems also have a higher risk of getting PPD.

 

5.  The language used in the article frustratingly minimizes the devastation that PPD can cause.  Such phrases as "the melancholy of motherhood" and "still, there is no denying that the postpartum period is a difficult one for many women" almost brush PPD off as a blue funk or a trying transition time for new moms.  This signifies a clear lack of understanding about the seriousness of this illness that somewhere between 10 and 20% of women around the world suffer.  PPD impacts a mother's ability to function on a daily basis.  It is not a difficult period.  Elton asks, "Does PPD screening identify cases of real depression or simply contribute to the potentially dangerous medicalization of motherhood?"  It is no more medicalizing motherhood to identify and treat PPD than it is to identify and treat gestational diabetes, which is universally screened for and occurs in only 3.5% of mothers.

 

As Time reported in June, the National Academies fully endorses screening for parental depression and believes it is crucial, while also emphasizing that screening is not helpful unless there is effective follow up and treatment tied to it.  Supporters of the MOTHERS Act share that belief.  Although effective treatment is available, fewer than half of cases of postpartum depression are recognized (Gjerdingen et al., Journal of the American Board of Family Medicine, 2007).  Even fewer of those women ever receive treatment of any kind.

We are terribly sorry about the experience of the one mother quoted in your article, which happens on rare occasions, but we believe that the MOTHERS Act would actually go a long way to prevent what happened to her.   What this bill actually funds is research, education and awareness.  If these pieces are put in place, women, families and medical professionals will be better educated to prevent false positives from screening.  A well-trained and educated physician will know to refer the patient on to a specialist who can inform her of various treatment options and monitor her to ensure the treatment she chooses is effective.   A woman who has been made fully aware of the kind of services she should receive and the risks and benefits of the treatments available to her will be able to make the best choice for herself and her family.

Time focused on one potential but unlikely consequence of the MOTHERS Act rather than the actual content of the bill and why it is so sorely needed.  We are deeply disappointed.

Sincerely,

Concerned Women

(Full list of signatories can be found HERE.)

(Pass it on.)



Thursday February 16, 2006

The Best Things Don't Come Easy

So, this whole new motherhood thing is, like, really hard.

I know that it's extra-difficult right now because of the whole head cold thing. Which, by the way, I passed on to Baby, even though a) I disinfected my germy self and everything I touched including Baby every two minutes, and b) isn't breastfeeding supposed to make babies pretty much bulletproof anyway? So now Baby has a stuffy nose and a sad little cough and didn't sleep last night and so it has all become more challenging. And it also doesn't help that the Husband has a Very Demanding Job that sometimes (like now) keeps him away for longer than is comfortable for me.

No-one said it would be easy, I know. And I knew it would be rough. But really. Is it this hard for everybody or am I just weak?

That said (and that asked)...

I was putting Baby to bed tonight, after something of a struggle with the nursing, and as I was tucking the swaddle blanket around her little bottom she locked eyes with me and just stared. It was the calmest, stillest gaze, and I can't begin to guess and wouldn't presume to guess what she was thinking, but it was such a peaceful, trusting look and my heart, I swear, it almost burst out of my chest.

And that heart-squeeze was a painful thing (my god the fragility and preciousness of the creature that is Baby! Who will always be Baby but who will grow and stretch and move and inevitably pull away from me!), but also the most beautiful thing that I have ever felt.

Hard, hard work. And so... ordinary. But such the extraordinary reward.





Originally posted at Her Bad Mother, 2006. Copyright Catherine Connors 2006 - 2009.


Friday February 10, 2006

Life Lessons, And A Footnote Extravaganza!

As has been well-documented in these virtual pages, Baby's best friend and Head of Security (Toy Detail) has, for some weeks now, been Whoozit. Baby and Whoozit have been inseparable, and Whoozit has been an integral part of Baby's governing regime. Whoozit stands guard while Baby plays with the Barnyard Posse, for example, and he screens all new toyz that come into Baby's 'hood. More recently, Whoozit's power had been growing, as Baby began consulting him more frequently on matters pertaining to law and order in the nursery (1).

Tell me, Whoozit...

... who can I trust?...

... Really? I too think that the NanaDoob is working against us (2) ...

... Can you take her?

Whoozit had also recently taken on the role of Baby's personal trainer, and they had been working on her arm strength. This is where the trouble began.

The other day, they were in the middle of a session, working the right arm, then the left, with several breaks for Baby to suck on her hands, when Whoozit said something (I don't know exactly, because I can't hear him (3)) to the effect of: "The time has come, Grasshopper, for you to take on your master." Then he challenged her to an arm wrestle.

The struggle was long, my friends, and Baby lost her footing - er, handing? gripping - many times along the way. But - wait for it - she won.

Whoozit was pulled, by two of his many arms, from his perch on the play-arch, and crashed to the ground.

And Baby burst into tears.

They were, I think, the tears that come when one realizes, inevitably, that one's heroes are not invincible; tears that we all cry when we discover that those we considered to be strong, to be our protectors, are, at the end of the day, human-all-too-human (or whoozit-all-too-whoozit) and, so, limited, and vulnerable.

Cue cello.

It was a sad day, but an important one. Baby grew up a little, that day. And it is a day that will come again, when she realizes that her parents, too, are only human, and not the amazing superhero wonder-people that she no doubt currently believes us to be. Barring greater tragedies, God willing, that will be the saddest day, but probably the most important, of her childhood. It will, I expect, mark the end of her childhood.

End cello.

Whoozit, BTW, was immediately fired.

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Footnotes! Now you're in for it!(4)

1) I use the term 'nursery' loosely, as a catch-all to refer to Baby's general territory. Baby, in fact, only occasionally sees her nursery, as she sleeps in Mommy and Daddy's room and spends her days in whatever room Mommy is in. The toyz, of course, follow Baby. So, really, it's all her turf now, and so we might as well call the whole damn house 'The Nursery.'

2) The NanaDoob recently, of her own accord, expanded her security portfolio to include a language-monitoring detail, having decided, it seems, to restrict languages spoken in The Nursery to just one, English. This would not be a problem, were it not for the fact that Baby is fond of two French storybooks, which are read aloud to her in, yes, French. (Yes, I am that kind of mother. I am reading to my baby in French. Why? Because I can. And, because I need something to offset the wussy-assed Attachment Parenting impulses that I can't shake (5). I'll address the issue of my overfunctioning Mommy-geekness some other time, when we can all sit down and establish what 'anal' really means, other than 'of or pertaining to the bumhole.') Anyway, the NanaDoob has been protesting the French LOUDLY and occasionally nipping at my elbow while I read. I don't know. Maybe she disagrees with their politics? She's pretty conservative...

3) Funny, but while the Husband has voiced concerns about my swaddle rants being possible early indicators of post-partum psychosis, and has stated that he finds it weird when I address him directly in these posts ("it makes it seem as though we never speak in person"), he does not seem to find it at all strange that I have anthropomorphized all of Baby's toys and ascribed to them personalities and language. Memo to husbands/partners/co-livers/whatever who are also new daddies: ranting about baby-related challenges is not a sign of impending insanity. Nor are efforts at direct communication, even if these occur over the Internet. Constructing an alternate parallel universe where your child's toys and pets have military and governmental posts may, however, be such a sign. MAYBE. In my case, however, it is not. Note that I said that I cannot hear Whoozit. If I could hear Whoozit (and if I could, he'd be crying about losing his job, poor guy) - which I CAN'T - then I might be crazy. But I can't, so I'm not, so there. (You hear that Honey? I'M FINE.)

4) I am a footnote FREAK. Exhibit A - this footnote, which is a footnote to the footnote heading. I had, like, 200 footnotes in my dissertation proposal. I've lost count of how many are in my (as-yet-UNFINISHED) actual dissertation. I LOVE footnotes. It didn't occur to me to use blog footnotes until I saw Jezer do it on her blog (Note - and note that I am not so cheeky as to actual footnote a footnote - I continually reference Jezer because a) I love her blog, and b) she's the only person who comments on my blog and so the source of the only evidence I have that anyone other that Hubbie actually reads this.) Which caused all footnote hell to break loose.

5) Exhibit B - a footnote to a footnote! Apparently I am that cheeky! (Or, as my Husband is probably thinking right now, losing my mind). Anyway, what I wanted to say here was - prior to the birth of Baby, I was ADAMANT that I was going follow some very strict parenting principles, beginning with MOMMY (and Daddy, sort of) WILL BE THE BOSS. There was going to be a schedule. Baby was going to sleep in her own room. Toys and gear were going to be vetted according to Mommy's aesthetic standards. No out-of-control demand feeding, no 'babywearing,' no co-sleeping, NONE OF IT. Well, that lasted about, oh, zero minutes. Baby is the boss. That's it. HOWEVER, there remains one small corner of this new Baby-centric world that I can unilaterally impose my will upon, and that is the corner that is her intellectual development. And I cling, obsessively, to that.


Originally posted at Her Bad Mother, 2006. Copyright Catherine Connors 2006 - 2009.



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Catherine Connors is a mother, writer and recovering academic who traded the lecture hall for the playroom and discovered that university students and preschoolers have much the same attention span. In addition to Bad Mother blogging at Beliefnet, she is, among other things, the author of HerBadMother.com, the moderator of Her Bad Mother’s Basement, the co-founder and co-editor of WeCovet, a contributing writer/editor at MamaPop and BlogHer, and most recently (deep breath) founder of and contributor to Canada Moms Blog. And in her spare time… oh, wait. She doesn’t have spare time. But she’s okay with that.


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