On Nov. 9, 1938, Jewish homes, shops and synagogues were ransacked across Germany and parts of Austria. Jews were shipped to concentration camps and beaten to death. Synagogues burned. Today we remember this pogrom as Kristallnacht, the night of broken glass, the sounds of Jewish windows breaking an eerie premonition of the larger disaster to follow. But in Judaism the sound of breaking glass is more commonly associated with the end of the Jewish wedding ceremony.
Tradition has it that the breaking of glass was originally included in the wedding ceremony to recall the shattering of the walls around the ancient city of Jerusalem and the destruction of the Temple. This sound, which commemorates the foundational trauma of rabbinic Judaism and the beginning of thousands of years of exile, is today greeted with joyous shouts of mazal tov by family and friends as the happy couple proceed to their reception.
How does the breaking of glass in one case symbolize that which is irreparably damaged, while in the other it acknowledges that things do break, but in their shattering a world of new possibilities can emerge?
Memory is always about choice. We can choose to remember the past in ways that will stir our anger and rage. We can choose to remember in ways that provoke sadness and pain. And we can choose to remember in ways that challenge us to take from the past those lessons that we need in order to be the people we most want to be and create the world in which we most want to live.
That choice confronts us in the aftermath of a fight with a loved one, a hurt they have caused us, or in how we recall those hurts that have threatened the very existence of entire communities.
Kristallnacht offers a real opportunity to ask ourselves and our communities about the memory choices that we make. Those choices are especially significant when it comes to how we remember the Holocaust. And they have never been more important than right now, as we become the first generation who will live without the survivors themselves.
The passing of the generation that witnessed the atrocities first hand leaves us with two profound challenges. First, we must acknowledge that continuing to remember as we have for the last sixty years will become increasingly impossible without the presence of the survivors themselves. Second, to appreciate the opportunity we now have, precisely because we ourselves were not the primary victims, to remember those past hurts in ways that not only maintain our connection with the past, but help us build a better future.
Admittedly, the destruction of the Temple was 2,000 years ago and for some the wounds of the Shoah are too deep and fresh. But for someone like me, a fourth generation American Jew with no family that I know of affected in the Shoah, how should we remember?
Will we remember past hurts in ways that bind us to the pain and constrain our ability to move forward, or in ways that recall the suffering, even as they celebrate the new futures born of them? With the enormous success of the world Jewish community over the past 70 years since Kristallnacht -- the establishment of the State of Israel, the growth of the freest, wealthiest, most vibrant Jewish Diaspora in the history of the Jewish people -- perhaps now is the moment to begin making that turn.
Perhaps now is the time to move beyond remembering how our glass was broken and begin to break our own glasses as a reminder that we are much more than victims.
What will the sound of breaking glass evoke in us this year?
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Author, radio and TV talk show host, and President of CLAL-The National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, Brad Hirschfield is the author of 
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By vowing & ensuring - Never again - Not to anybody - Not anywhere.
Is their pain any less than ours ?
Scott R, I guess my post went way over your head. My ending paragraph reads:
"I urge each of you to view any attempt to limit our Constitutional rights by any elected official as an attempt to visit another Kristallnacht on us. Whether it is an attempt to limit our ability to own a weapon, to speak our mind, to write our opinions or go to the house of worship of our choice, zealously fight any attempt to limit our rights. NEVER AGAIN should be each and very Jew's personal mantra."
That, was the thrust of the post. Did I besmirch our president-elect by quoting him? Did I besmirch him by recalling his actions? Does the truth cause you that much discomfort?
In small words what I tried to get across is be wary of those who hold office who try to limit ANY of our constitutional rights. That means both the ones you personally like and the ones you do not. Kapish?
So Al, were you out protesting in the streets when George W. Bush and Dick Cheney were chipping away at our constitutional freedoms? When the Patriot Act made us similar to Soviet Russia? When the Republicans demonized all liberals and Democrats as un-American for not supporting the war? How about when the Republican Party threw in their lot with the Xian fascists of the Religious Right?
Somehow I think I know the answer.
Well, you know what? My family had to live through 8 years of hell (opened by the Pubs stealing the Vice Presidency from a Jew). Now's your turn.
To protect the constitutional rights that are slowely disapating takes more that a mere conscience to vote. And it is not just a single persons fault for a political shift or change, and to think that just one person can or should be held to suffer because of a indifference is wrong. It is not that one person will suffer but that we all will suffer. It takes companionship and compadra ship to unflock unjustice, let all people around the world who watched the election take notice. That it is people who make changes and governments that bend.But when ever a truely deadly agenda does sprout its head, it is not just one government that is the hero, but all governments. A unified world government sphereheade with universal application, and my prayers Jewish dominancy.
can i have some quotes?
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