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Wednesday December 3, 2008

Categories: Israel, News, Pop Culture

Shalom, Christmas Shoppers

Today's Wall Street Journal reports that all across America, holiday shoppers at malls are being "accosted" by pushy, money-hungry Israelis selling everything from hand cream to toy helicopters. One of the twenty-something salespeople describes what he is doing, not to selling but to "hunting". Is this a story which trumpets old anti-Semitic stereotypes, or is it just accurately reporting a cultural phenomenon? Might it be both, simultaneously?

Even the non-Israeli vendors who work alongside them at the malls, report mixed feelings about the phenomenal success (as much as $500.00 a day) of these post-army Israelis financing everything from trips to South America to their next folk albums with their push cart earnings.

Some non-Israeli cart operators have mixed feelings about the competition. Israelis "are really hassling people a lot," and people are losing respect for the carts, says Ayhan Yuce, a Turkish immigrant who sells jewelry, sunglasses and toys at carts in about 60 U.S. malls. Still, he's considering studying Hebrew.

"I really would like to hire some of those Israelis," he says. "They are really good salesmen. You have to admire them."

So is this just another story of people finding financial opportunity in America? Is it a source of pride to those who admire the Israeli can-do spirit? Is it an ugly tale of money-grubbing Jews preying on their Christian neighbors doing some innocent Christmas shopping?

I am not sure, but I bet you all have an idea. Let me know what you think.

Monday December 1, 2008

Categories: Politics, Pop Culture, Religion

No Church for President-Elect Obama

President-elect Obama hasn't been to church in weeks, saying he doesn't want to disrupt the service for others. I find that rationale a little tough to swallow, but wish that he would share his real thoughts on the matter. As with so many other large cultural issues, he could move forward an important conversation about faith in our nation.

Of course, if President-elect Obama chooses not to attend church, that's his business. And he owes no explanation for making that choice. The idea that our president must attend church, flies in the face the very religious liberty upon which our nation is founded. But telling us that he has made that choice because he "doesn't want to disrupt the service for others" stretches even this supporter's ability to trust his answer on this issue.

For starters, my guess is that while his attendance at a church of his choosing would cause some logistical challenges, on balance, most worshippers would be delighted share a pew with the president-elect. Far from disrupting the service, I imagine it would affirm the faith of those who worship alongside him.

And even if one accepts his rationale for not attending church with others, it does not explain why the president-elect has not made alternative arrangements for formal prayer in a more private setting. He would be far from the first public figure to do so. So that cannot be it either.

It would be quite interesting to here from him why he chooses not to engage in any kind of public worship at this time, especially after so many years of regular church attendance. But whatever the real answer is, the inability to share it has as much to do with the American public as it does with President-elect Obama.

Are we really ready to hear our president say that public prayer is simply not that important to him?

Monday November 24, 2008

Dieting For God

Does God care what size we are? According to Christine B. Whelan in this morning's USA Today, The answer is certainly not! But how can she be so certain? If there really is a God (I believe that there is) and if He/She/It geuninely cares about us (something which I also want to believe), then there is nothing outlandish about that God caring what size we are.

Having struggled with weight pretty much my entire life (have you seen my picture?), I appreciate how painful and guilt inducing this issue can be. But experiencing a measure of pain and guilt over not doing all that we can to care for the gift of the bodies we have been given is not so bad. Please note that I wrote pain or guilt, not shame.

The God in whom I believe does not love us any less or see us as any less beautiful because we may not be as healthy as we can be. And we should give ourselves the same due. We, as God, can love the lumpy bumpy bodies that we have, even if it pains us that they are not as healthy as we would like. But we should also accept a degree of responsibility for the condition of our physical bodies just as we do for our spiritual selves.

The Hebrew Bible commands it readers to "choose life" and to "guard our lives".

Friday November 21, 2008

Muslim Anti-Semitism and the Muslim Next Door

Muslim Anti-Semitism is a very real, but whether or not hatred of Jews is either typical among contemporary Muslims, at least in America, or reflective of traditional Islam, is another story. That appraisal probably disturbs people on each side, with half already screaming that I am an Islamaphobe and the other half that I am a shill for the Muslim community.

Whether my assessment is correct or not, one thing is for certain: no problem, whether between individuals, communities or nations, gets better until each side can imagine that they are more guilty than they like to admit and that the other side is not as bad as they like to imagine. And all the attempts to avoid that, however well-intentioned, simply fuel the fires of hatred and suspicion on both sides.

Beliefnet's Islam editor Dilshad Ali shared with me a piece by Muslim Next Door author, Sumbul Ali-Karamali which falls prey to some of that avoidance. Ms. Ali-Karamali largely ignores the real challenges of Muslim anti-Semitism, opting instead to explain how hatred of Jews has no place in classical Islam and has been rarely manifested among Muslims. And as beautiful as her conclusions are, it makes me wonder what she could be thinking.

Even if one makes a solid case for the relative merits of Islam over Christianity vis a vis the past treatment of Jews, which is entirely appropriate, we can not ignore the second-class status imposed upon Jews even under the crescent. Of course, as Ali-Karamali proudly points out, Jews were honored as people of the book, but they were hardly equal citizens. Jews were also relegated to the status of protected minorities forced to pay a Jewish head tax.

Wednesday November 19, 2008

Thanksgiving & Prayer Definitely, But Not to God Perhaps

Thanksgiving is only a week away. And while we all appreciate the time off, it's worth remembering how this holiday came to be and thinking together about whether of not it's really a good idea.

I think that Presidents Washington and Lincoln were correct about the importance of proclamations of a national day of thanksgiving, to which they both attached their signatures, but wrong to include the phrase "to God". Though to be fair to each of them, given the age in which they lived, it made perfect sense to do so. President Jackson may have been correct to refuse a national day of prayer, but both he and we should be heavy-hearted about that reality.

No society has cultivated long-term success without nurturing in its members the ability to reflect and meditate on the most important issues of the day. And no society has maintained its strength without cultivating its citizens' capacity for gratitude. But God need not be a part of that for all Americans, even if it is for most of us. In fact, legislating that God should be, strikes me as an idea that is as wrong as creating national days of thanksgiving and prayer are right.

Perhaps we are not ready for a national day of prayer because we do not yet know how to pull that off without trampling on the rights of those who pray differently or do not consider their reflections to be prayer at all. But the fact that we are not able to accomplish something does not make it a bad idea. It means that we have more work to do as a nation - work on the definitions of prayer and thanksgiving, and work on our ability to respect each other's forms of ethical or spiritual reflection.

This issue cuts to the heart of a needless dichotomy which weakens our public culture and degrades public conversation about the soul our nation.

Tuesday November 18, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture

Why Virtual Cheating Really Hurts

At first blush, the idea that a couple is divorcing over a husband's flirtations with a virtual woman may sound funny. But if we take online communication seriously, and respect the power of imagination, there is nothing funny about it....

Thursday November 13, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Politics, Pop Culture

The Pro-Obama, Anti-Gay, Black Electorate

Proposition 8, the California initiative defining marriage as being only between a man and a woman was voted into law by a 52% majority and black voters favored that outcome by a margin of 70%. In fact, Evangelical Christians were...

Tuesday November 11, 2008

The Limits of Karen Armstrong's Compassion

Karen Armstrong's invitation to the world to begin writing today, a Charter for Compassion, strikes me as well-intentioned silliness at best. At worst it is a more benign form of the same religious arrogance which she decries and which lies...

Sunday November 9, 2008

The Boy in the Striped Pajamas

Suffering is not a zero-sum game, even when it comes to the Holocaust. But based on many comments from inside the Jewish community about the new film, The Boy in the Striped Pajamas, one might think otherwise. Apparently, the very...

Thursday November 6, 2008

Barack Obama is Not the Messiah

The religious left may be losing its mind. Perhaps it's just a momentary lapse of judgment in light of the Obama victory. After all, there is much to celebrate about this election. Not least of which is that it indicates...

Wednesday October 29, 2008

Dying Well

There are many understandings of dying well but few extol the value of loneliness. And the hospice chaplains described in this article know that, beyond all else. It's powerful stuff which transcends any particular faith or ideology. In, fact, many...

Tuesday October 28, 2008

Categories: Israel, News, Politics, Pop Culture

Dems and Reps Terrorize Opponents

When I received the following link to hard right Israeli broadcaster Arutz 7, being circulated by pro-McCain people, I was tempted to ignore it. Claiming that Hamas is supporting Obama in the presidential election, they suggest that supporting Obama is...

Friday October 24, 2008

Kabbalah and Madonna's Divorce

It's well known by now that Madonna and Guy Ritchie are divorcing. And it's also well known that the divorce promises to be ugly, featuring the work of "pit bull" attorneys working for both sides. It's a shame that with...

Thursday October 23, 2008

American Prayer, Featuring Barack Obama as God

I happen to love the new music video of American Prayer - the song is stirring, the imagery is powerful, the many stars it features, including Whoopi Goldberg, Forest Whitaker, Joss Stone, and Herbie Hancock, are warm and engaging. Even...

Friday October 17, 2008

Farwell Abby Lockhart, Hello Job

Apparently, the writers of NBC's hospital drama, ER, are reading their Bible. They liberally seasoned last night's departure of long-time star, Maura Tierney who played Dr. Abby Lockhart, with lengthy citations from the Book of Job. And although they never...

Thursday October 16, 2008

Categories: News, Politics, Pop Culture

Obama and McCain as Panderers-in-Chief

The star of last night's debate was clearly Joe Wurzelbacher, otherwise known as Joe the Plumber. The winner is up for debate. But Americans were certainly the losers as both candidates competed not for the role of Commander-in-Chief, but for...

Sunday October 12, 2008

Cancerous Faith

Faith is central to living a good life - it may be faith in God, it may be in science, it may be in those we love. Frankly, I believe in them all even as I appreciate that they are...

Friday October 10, 2008

Categories: News, Pop Culture, Religion

The Holocaust, Tarantino-style: Jews Scalping Nazis

Quentin Tarantino's newest film, Inglorious Bastards, stars Brad Pitt and begins filming this week in Germany. Telling the story of Jews taking violent revenge on their Nazi tormentors, the movie includes the exploits of a unit of Jewish members of...

Thursday October 9, 2008

Categories: News, Pop Culture, Spirituality

Greed On Main Street as Dangerous as on Wall Street

Listed $140,000 Below Its Value Denver Just One Market Where Houses Sell For A Fraction of Their Worth This headline, found on the AOL Homepage's opening gallery, proves both how little we have learned from the current economic crises, and...

Wednesday October 8, 2008

Categories: News, Politics, Pop Culture

Wright, Keating and Muthee: With Friends Like These, Do Candidates Need Enemies?

Obama and Jeremiah Wright, McCain and Charles Keating, Palin and Pastor Muthee. Should we judge these candidates by the company that they keep? Is that unfair guilt by asscociation? I think that candidates should be judged by both the company...

Tuesday October 7, 2008

Categories: Judaism, Pop Culture, Religion

Besides Sex - Reasons Why Men Cheat

According to a new study by marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman, 1 out of 2.7 of us men cheat on our wives, and most of them will never find out. From which we can deduce one of two things: either...

Monday October 6, 2008

Categories: News, Politics, Pop Culture

Who You Callin' a Maverick? Why the NY Times Should Apologize

There's that word again: maverick. Used in Thursday's Vice-Presidential debate, by Gov. Sarah Palin six times to describe herself and her running mate, Senator John McCain, who she described as "the consummate maverick." But where does the term come from...

Wednesday October 1, 2008

Categories: News, Pop Culture, Religion

Religulous: Preaching to a Choir of Angry Secularists

Religulous is to religion as rape is to sex. Like the versions of religion and religious people in Bill Maher's Religulous which opens Friday, rape is a terrible thing which must be recognized and combated. But it hardly defines the...

Monday September 29, 2008

Overcoming Boredom by Eating God for Rosh Hashanah

There are many customs on Rosh Hashanah: blowing the shofar, eating apples dipped in honey, and long hours of prayer and meditation. But until I watched the cartoon adventures of Todd and God on You Tube, I never knew that...

Thursday September 25, 2008

Categories: Israel, Politics, Pop Culture

Israelis for Obama and Lessons for McCain

This You Tube video, entitled Israelis for Obama is amazing. It does not provide a great deal of new information about his policies, which are not all that different from McCain's when it comes to Israel. It does something far...

Wednesday September 24, 2008

John McCain, Sarah Palin and Overturning Roe v. Wade

I was asked by John Meacham of Newsweek, what I thought about John McCain and Sarah Palin's desire to overturn Roe v. Wade, the 1973 Supreme Court decision which legalized abortion. Here is my response. If John McCain and Sarah...

Wednesday September 24, 2008

Forgiveness: 10 Steps To Giving It and Getting It

Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, begins on Monday night. Like all New Year's celebrations, it's a chance to start over. And starting over often involves forgiveness -- both giving it and getting it. Neither of those is easy, but...

Thursday September 11, 2008

Categories: News, Pop Culture

NY Jets and Giants Stadium with a Nazi Name

That's what people are worried about as the NY Jets and Giants consider selling the naming rights to the stadium in which they play, to Allianz, a German company which insured the Auschwitz death camp and had a CEO who...

Saturday September 6, 2008

A Woman In The White House, But Not In God's House

Many conservative religious groups bar women from becoming clergy. And even in those denominations in which women do serve as clergy, they often face barriers in their careers because they are women. I was asked this week, if I think...

Tuesday September 2, 2008

When Presidents Wear Yarmulkes

This gallery of US Presidents and those seeking the office, wearing kippot, also known as yarmulkes and skullcaps, is quite amazing. What does it mean that a garment designed to publicly mark its wearer as a Jew, can be found...

Monday September 1, 2008

Prayer in Public Schools, But When?

With a new school year beginning, we are likely once again, to see many questions about prayer in public school raised. This one, asked by a listener who heard me on NPR, struck me as particularly worthy of sharing. Hello...

Saturday August 30, 2008

Categories: News, Pop Culture, Religion

Family Is a Faith Issue

What is faith, any faith really about? Is it about philosophical debates? Is it nothing more than theological wrangling? Or could it be something much closer to home for most of us? Could it be about the big questions in...

Wednesday August 27, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture, Religion

Proof of God's Existence

The following story from the Chicago Tribune, 'Jewish clause' divides a family, state courts weigh in on a man's will that disinherited any descendant who married a gentile, is proof not only of God's existence, but that God must love...

Monday August 25, 2008

Letter to an Evangelical Friend

Some months ago I had the pleasure to meet a documentary film maker who is also an Evangelical Christian. Actually, those two facets of his identity are pretty closely related, at least right now, as he is working on a...

Friday August 22, 2008

Categories: Judaism, Pop Culture, Religion

Scripture For Sale

Should kids be paid to complete their homework assignments? This debate continues to surface in parenting magazines, school districts around the nation, and now on the homepage of the Jewish Telegraphic Agency - well, sort of. Turns out that a...

Thursday August 21, 2008

Rick Warren, Abortion and the Holocaust

Rick Warren's beleifnet.com interview is a must read, both because of the wisdom it contains and a rather horrific analogy made by him in which he compares any position on abortion other than his own, to holocaust denial. I assume...

Thursday August 14, 2008

What's a Jewish Blog?

Has it been circumcised? Does it observe the Sabbath? Perhaps it's written in Hebrew? Not for me, even though I pass all three of those tests. But in light of some recent traffic, I think it's time to reflect on...

Wednesday August 13, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture, Religion

God as My Financial Advisor

With an ever-tightening economic situation and no relief on the horizon for most of us, I was intrigued by a recent poll by the Washington Post which examined the ways in which faith influenced the lives of people under financial...

Tuesday August 12, 2008

Categories: Politics, Pop Culture, Religion

Kirk Cameron, Israel, and God's Plan for the World

There is so much to respond to in Kirk Cameron's Beliefnet interview, it's hard to know where to begin. Not least is the notion that we need to ask ourselves why we care so much about what a former sit-com...

Monday August 11, 2008

Do Miracles Happen?

Of course they do, at least as far as I'm concerned. But that's just one man's opinion and also a function of my definition of miracle, which is a positive outcome or turn of events that can not be explained...

Thursday August 7, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture, Religion

Overcoming Religious Rage

Once again, I am overwhelmed by the evidence suggesting that we humans are always ready to do real harm in the name of a good cause. In fact, especially when it comes to religion, nothing seems to make us happier...

Monday August 4, 2008

Categories: News, Politics, Pop Culture

Condoleezza Rice's Aspen Performance Helps Barack Obama

Yesterday evening's musical performance by Condoleezza Rice at the Aspen Institute and Aspen Music Festival should have been called, Shanda (Yiddish for travesty) and Schubert. But Boosha (Hebrew for shame) and Brahms would be just as appropriate. What else to...

Saturday August 2, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture, Religion

Are You Ethically Kosher?

That's the big question being addressed by Hekhsher Tzedek, an initiative led primarily by rabbis in the Conservative movement, most notably Rabbi Morris Allen of Beth Jacob Congregation in Mendota Heights, Minnesota. With new guidelines just released in which they...

Friday August 1, 2008

Can You Be Both Religious and Racist?

That's the question I was asked this week by the Newsweek and Washington Post editors of the On Faith section, in light of the fact that 33% of Americans admit to racial prejudice and 90% of us claim to believe...

Thursday July 31, 2008

Categories: Israel, News, Pop Culture

The Daily Hitler

There is actually a website called The Daily Hitler, and it's not the product of neo-Nazis seeking their regular fix of the Fuhrer. It's the work of Israeli artist Nir Avigad. And although I know I am going to get...

Wednesday July 30, 2008

Jews, News, and Head Coverings

What do you think about wearing an "Obamica"? How about covering your head with a "McCippah"? Well, now you can. A recent post at Seattlepi.com describes Shmuel Tennenhaus' new business, VanityKippah.com and it newest products. Take your pick, but you...

Saturday July 26, 2008

Stealing Meaning from Obama's Western Wall Prayer

American Spectator contributing editor, Jay Homnick wins the award for the pot calling the kettle black. He charges Barack Obama with inappropriately "politicizing" the Western Wall and somehow violating its sanctity: "The Jewish tradition invests it (Western Wall) with a...

Friday July 25, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture

Nice Jewish Girls Do...Swimsuit Calendar?

Love it, hate it, or some combination of the two, but you gotta pay attention to Heeb magazine's "Girls of 5769" calendar, featured in both the New York Post and Ha'aretz daily. The latter includes a video of an African-Amercian...

Wednesday July 23, 2008

Categories: Judaism, News, Pop Culture, Religion

Jewish Dirty Words

Shame on The Huffington Post's coverage of the on again - off again - on again relationship between Ivanka Trump and New York Observer owner Jared Kushner, which manages to use the word shiksa numerous times in a piece of...

Tuesday July 22, 2008

Categories: Judaism, Pop Culture

Stuff Jewish People Like

A friend forwarded me the following link: www.stuffwhitepeoplelike.com. It got me thinking about a parallel site which could be stuffjewishpeoplelike.com, and what lists and descriptions people might put there. To get you started, I am including some of the suggestions...

Monday July 21, 2008

Healing What Hurts

In response to a wonderful set of questions generated by yesterday's post on how to deal with a painful past, I continue where yesterday left off. Lucy wrote: I'm wondering if the concept of pain that you are referring to...

Sunday July 20, 2008

How to Deal With a Painful Past

We all have events from our past which cause us pain. The question is how to deal with them. Today is the 20th of July, but it is also the 17th day in the month of Tammuz, according to the...

Tuesday July 15, 2008

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