Your Charmed Life

Your Charmed Life

Making a Home to Soothe the Soul

posted by Victoria Moran | 10:17am Monday June 1, 2009

I am visiting my friend Suzanne who lives in heaven. Not
harps-and-angels-heaven, earth-heaven. She has created in her home tucked away
in the Sunset Hills of West Hollywood something of a cross between Eden and
Fantasyland. Her back patio and garden is a colorful jungle of everything that
blooms. Oranges hang from tree branches. The pool reflects the Spanish tiles
and the bright sky.

Inside is all color and whimsy. Her dining room is
sponge-painted a wonderful blue and a wonderful peach, with stenciling along
the ceiling line and a sunny cream-colored ceiling with an antique chandelier of brass and stained glass growing out of a proudly painted flower. The furniture has accents of red and blue and more flowers. The floor is brick. When I’m
here, I have architectural contentment.

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My talents do not include design. I fail at it quite a bit and succeed in pieces here and there. I’ve made the smaller
bathroom in our new condo an aspirational mélange of bells and crystals and
fanciful things (a yellow cab, a pig that flies) hung from the ceiling. And
I’ve outfitted the guest bedroom, in our feng shui prosperity area, with a
purple wall and window shade and an antique red Chinese chest with a secret
drawer. It’s a start. Being at Suzanne’s place makes me want to keep going.

My husband tells me that I’m impossible to please in terms
of interiors, and I’ve finally figured out why: I know what I delight in when I see
it and feel it, but I can’t describe what it looks like to another person.
That’s because it is a feeling as much as a look. I know it has to do with
colors that resemble the contents of a case at Baskin-Robbins, and things that
were made by somebody’s hands or so long ago that they’ve developed lives and
stories. It’s about coziness and feeling safely wrapped up in the books and
objects and enchantments that live in the room.

Right now I’m wrapped up in work, focusing on my two new
books as if they were nursing infants demanding all my time and attention. But
soon they’ll need to fly on their own and I can turn more of my thoughts toward
home—softer lights in the bathrooms, paint that could pass for pistachio and
butter pecan. Especially in times like these when the news from the outer world
is more startling by the day, the solace of home is all the
more necessary. To that end, tomorrow’s Tuesday’s Top 10 post will be simple feng
shui suggestions from a master of that trade, Liz Brown. And if you’d like to
read more of what I think on this subject overall, my book Shelter for the Spirit:
Create Your Own Haven in a Hectic World
, is
still extant in its twelfth year. It’s about making your home nurture your
soul, and I can’t think of a more basic human yearning than that.

Oversight: When I was waxing poetic about the wonderful restaurants that provided delicious cuisine for the press party the other night for The Love-Powered Diet, I left out one of the very yummiest, Franchia Tea House. It’s an exquisite oasis of calm in Murray Hill — 12 Park Ave. between 34th & 35th. One problem with dining out in Manhattan is that so many restaurants are noisy. This one is like a monastic garden. And the Asian fusion, vegan fare — with an extraordinary tea service besides — is an experience not to be missed.



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Brenda

posted June 2, 2009 at 4:01 pm


Hi Victoria…I have many of your books, I am on your email list, I read your blogs, and follow you on Twitter and I have to finally take a minute to thank you! I have been single for over 10 years now, I lost my job three months ago, and just found out I have fibromyalgia…but on those days when I am feeling down or lonely or hurting…there YOU are! Your writing has encouraged me more than you will ever know! Your books are some of the few that I recommend to my friends, but never let them borrow (they have to get their own tee hee) You are an amazing woman and the information and affirmations that you provide, have literally been life saving to this charmed girl in a small town in Ohio! Many Blessings and Light to you and all that you do!



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posted June 2, 2009 at 4:42 pm


My home is one of a kind,i can say uniquely designed.We have almost all kinds of books at home,from funny books,the Bible readings,tips for beauty care,living healthy through exercise,eating balance diet,political issues,love story books,name it we have them in our library,we are one family who loves to read,soo books makes our day,
our home is simply designed that way,we read and later on we share what we read,we live what we read,above all we pray before we read,
before we eat,before we sleep,before we travel.This is my description of the simple home i belong.thank you.



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Donna Good

posted June 3, 2009 at 11:06 am


so true. I have that book and am looking forward to your new ones.



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